April Masini, known as Ask April, explains that technology should be used with “grace” and “elegance,” much like proper table manners. She argues that using a phone during a date can signal disinterest and reduce meaningful interaction. While acknowledging that technology can enhance communication overall, she emphasizes that it should not overshadow in-person connection. Her advice centers on being present, attentive, and respectful, framing good phone etiquette as essential to preserving intimacy and strengthening relationships.