1. Visualize a relaxing scene when you visit
  2. Be well rested before your visit
  3. Plan the subject of your conversation beforehand
  4. Set a realistic goal for the visit
  5. Be well rested before you visit
  6. Give and receive a hug
  7. Walk away from unnecessary conflict
  8. Confront your feelings
  9. Believe in the power of forgiveness
  10. Count your blessings